Saturday, February 11, 2006
♥ 12:50 PM
yada yada yada..... That's what i heard..... Lotsa of yada yada yada.... Fill in whatever you like for the yada yada yada part..... People are so imaginative and creative..... See a couple quarrelling on the street and they can try to imitate them them by mouthing their words.... Those working in the media company can comes up with lotsa ideas for a show.... People like me who got neither imagination nor creativity so we just sit and listen to other ppl's contributions...And carry out their instructions...I
was browsing through my almost 2 years worth of previous posts.... Though I havent been writing much.... But it contains memories of Me graduating from poly then going to brisbane to leading a boring life for the past one year..... Both good and bad memories..... Failing my test.... waking up early for lectures... Panicking during exam period....Cooking yucky food.... Taking lotsa photos (never so many in my whole life..~100+ photos per photo session)....The late night shoppings.... But those shall only always remain as memories.... We can only look forward..... The past is only to remind you of what we've done worng and learn from your mistakes and NOT make the same mistakes in future again......But i seem to be making the same mistakes non stop.....Maybe I've not learnt my lesson WELL...
Some people tell you this some ppl tell you that..... Who is wrong who is right??? Do you have the right to judge??? From the start you already doesn't have a good impression of them..... And peoples' gossiping makes it worse.... And so you judge people according to what other people say.... Everyone make this same mistake..... Do not deny... I admit i do make the same mistakes..... Did we ever give a chance to the victims??? No... We just outcast them... because our minds are all being corrupted.... If only humans' brains are like computers' hard drive... When it's corrupted You remove it and put in a new one.... But it's human brain we're talking about here.... How to change as and when we like so we can only let it get more and more corrupted to a point of no repair.... But some victims do get their chance of readdressing their wrongs...And by spread of mouth other people tends to accept them once again.... But who are those few lucky one??? Peoples' mouth are the start of evil... One GOOD single sentence and when passed down the line you find that it get more and more distorted...(people of course put in their own view as they pass the sentence along) By the time it gets to the last person the meaning of the 1st sentence have changed drastically..... And peoples' ears LOVE to hear nice stuff about themselves ONLY and of course gossips about other people la.....That's why there bound to people who say you're totally rotten when you're perfectly good.... Friends too... Let say A dislike B and YOU are A's good friend.....You don't really know B... And since A dislike B..He/She will input nasty stuff abt he/she to YOU... And YOU as a friend of course choose to believe your good friend.... A is your good friend... Of Course whatever he/she says is right.... But have YOU actually given B a chance?? To get to know him/her to see if he/she is really like what A says??? We don't..... We just judge that particular someone by What other people say...And the nasty stuff does not stop between you 2... You spread them to your other friends as well..... And so in the end everyone gets a bad impression of B.....Everyone will be both the victim and accused at some point of time....That's what makes the world more interesting doesn't it??? W/o gossips Life wont be so colorful anymore.....But gossips kills sometimes...They rob you of alot of things..... Another thing... I think carol mention in her post before.... Lets say A, B, C and D are good friends... But A doesnt really like C. D doesnt really like B.. A and B are closer friends while C and D are closer friends.... But they all mix together... They do not show their dislike for each other openly.... Only discuss it secretly....But they can still mingle around like they're so happy with others' company while they backstab u like hell behind your back.... "i dislike her style"..."i dun like her acting"..."she's so stupid"... "she's a bitch"... I used she coz gals like to do that more often than guys.... Haha....I've experience it before....I'm sure alot of other ppl do also....It's no surprise....If i deny then I'm lying....Why do friends backstab each other??? I wonder... Are they jealous of each others' achievements??? Like C is more clever... A is prettier..... B is more generous.... D has wide social circle...And so they're all jealous of each other in secret..... I'm sure even if the 2 most best friends also have their own jealousy for each other... Even if for the weirdest stuff.... Don't try to deny....Hmmm......Wonder why i wrote such a long post on these stuff.... I guess it's all a girls' thing ba....
Gossip...
Jealousy....
Backstabbing....(I seldom see guys do these..... Tell me if you know of any......)
It's time to grow up and think hard...Judge not with your heart but your mind.....Enough of fooling around.....Time to get serious....
This may or may not be my last post....We'll see as times goes... But I'll still reply to tags....It's another form of communicating......*winks*
